How Do You Start Over again?

 There would be times where I just don't know if I am doing the right things in my life because sometimes the outlook is just not looking great. 

I had this thought a couple of months back when I was going to be endorsed on production to take calls in my current company where I was like 'Is this really the right decision for me?' 'Are we sure about this?' those questions kept going over and over in my head as the days go on and as I take more calls. 

And I think I made a right decision. Its been about 6 months since that time and I have never felt more secured with what I decided. 

Another factor that made me go and pursue this path is because I am not getting any younger. I admit, I chased a dream wherein I am not really sure if I am destined for it. I haven't given up on blogging and content creation but I can honestly say that its more than views and clicks for me now. It has become a way for me to express myself and help people come out of their shell too. Sharing how weird and simple life can be without caring what people think about you makes life so much better! 

I've chased that dream for 10 years now and I think I need to slow down now. I am at a pace where I am comfortable. If I overexert myself again I know where this might go. 



So the question remains: How Do You Start Over Again? 

To be honest, You start over again with a mindset for yourself. Start over for your mental health's sake. Start over to feel happy again. Learn to crawl before you can walk then run. 

I have learned that in order to start over you should be able to learn and let go of your past completely because you won't be able to go back to it. Time has passed, people change. Learning to let go might be hard but the moment you realized that you can let things go can make you a better person. 

If you are starting over again let me say this: YOU CAN DO IT! 

you can always do things with the right mindset: YOURSELF. 

It's never wrong to be selfish for your benefit. That is called self respect and self preservation. Always remember that the first person you prioritize if YOU okay? 

Much Love 

xx Alice 

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